Never Have I Ever for Couples: 100 Questions to Play Together

Never Have I Ever for two is less about scoring and more about the stories. Even if you've been together for years, there's always something you haven't told each other: a weird childhood habit, a travel disaster, a first-date secret.

Here are 100 statements for couples in four levels. You can also play in Never Have I Ever online: the For couples deck is free, and you both answer secretly before the game reveals who has.

How to play as a couple

1. Take turns reading a statement.
2. If you've done it, say "I have" and score a point. If you haven't, say "I haven't".
3. Whoever has done it tells the story. The other can ask one follow-up question.
4. At the end, the one with more points pays for dessert, picks the next movie or chooses tomorrow's breakfast.

Long distance? Open the same room by link on a video call and answer at the same time. No peeking at each other's faces before the reveal.

Sweet statements

1. Never have I ever kept something from our first date.
2. Never have I ever told my friends about you before our second date.
3. Never have I ever planned what to say before calling you.
4. Never have I ever saved a screenshot of our chat.
5. Never have I ever bought a gift for you months in advance.
6. Never have I ever written your name in my notes with a heart.
7. Never have I ever re-read our old messages.
8. Never have I ever fallen asleep on a call with you.
9. Never have I ever cried because I missed you.
10. Never have I ever listened to a song on repeat because it reminded me of you.
11. Never have I ever kept a photo of you as my lock screen.
12. Never have I ever told my parents about you early on.
13. Never have I ever imagined our wedding.
14. Never have I ever bragged about you to strangers.
15. Never have I ever worn your clothes when you weren't around.
16. Never have I ever chosen a restaurant just because you once said you liked it.
17. Never have I ever pretended to like your favorite movie.
18. Never have I ever cooked something special just to impress you.
19. Never have I ever thought about you all day at work.
20. Never have I ever said "I love you" in my head before saying it out loud.
21. Never have I ever googled your name before we met.
22. Never have I ever stalked your social media before our first date.
23. Never have I ever been nervous before meeting your friends.
24. Never have I ever written you a message and then deleted it.
25. Never have I ever planned a surprise for you that didn't happen.

Funny statements

26. Never have I ever eaten your leftovers and blamed someone else.
27. Never have I ever pretended to be asleep so you'd do the dishes.
28. Never have I ever laughed at you when you fell.
29. Never have I ever pretended to like a gift from you.
30. Never have I ever secretly changed the thermostat.
31. Never have I ever stolen the blanket on purpose.
32. Never have I ever watched the next episode of our show without you.
33. Never have I ever hidden a purchase from you.
34. Never have I ever pretended I didn't see your message.
35. Never have I ever used your toothbrush.
36. Never have I ever farted and blamed the dog (or the couch).
37. Never have I ever practiced a serious talk with you in the mirror.
38. Never have I ever forgotten an anniversary and pretended I didn't.
39. Never have I ever taken an unflattering photo of you while you were asleep.
40. Never have I ever googled how to fix an argument.
41. Never have I ever lost an argument and kept arguing anyway.
42. Never have I ever imitated you behind your back.
43. Never have I ever told a friend about one of our fights.
44. Never have I ever finished your snacks and replaced them before you noticed.
45. Never have I ever pretended to know where we were going.
46. Never have I ever let you win a game on purpose.
47. Never have I ever been jealous of your pet.
48. Never have I ever planned a date and forgotten to book it.
49. Never have I ever rolled my eyes when you weren't looking.
50. Never have I ever fallen asleep during a movie you picked.

Deep statements

51. Never have I ever been afraid of losing you.
52. Never have I ever doubted that you loved me.
53. Never have I ever kept a worry to myself so I wouldn't upset you.
54. Never have I ever wanted to apologize but couldn't find the words.
55. Never have I ever felt you understood me better than anyone.
56. Never have I ever wanted us to move to another city.
57. Never have I ever thought about what our kids would be like.
58. Never have I ever changed a habit because of you.
59. Never have I ever felt lonely while we were together.
60. Never have I ever been proud of you without telling you.
61. Never have I ever wished we talked more about the future.
62. Never have I ever kept a secret from you for your own good.
63. Never have I ever thought "this is the one" in an ordinary moment.
64. Never have I ever wanted to call you after an argument but didn't.
65. Never have I ever felt that you changed my life.
66. Never have I ever been jealous of one of your friends.
67. Never have I ever wished you'd ask me more questions.
68. Never have I ever imagined us as an old couple.
69. Never have I ever wanted to travel the world with you.
70. Never have I ever felt more myself with you than with anyone else.
71. Never have I ever wanted to tell you something and chickened out.
72. Never have I ever been grateful to an ex for leading me to you.
73. Never have I ever doubted myself in this relationship.
74. Never have I ever felt like we were a team.
75. Never have I ever wanted to start a new tradition with you.

Flirty statements

76. Never have I ever thought about kissing you before our first kiss.
77. Never have I ever dressed up just for you.
78. Never have I ever flirted with you in front of other people without them noticing.
79. Never have I ever had a dream about you.
80. Never have I ever sent you a message I wouldn't want anyone else to read.
81. Never have I ever wanted to skip a party to stay home with you.
82. Never have I ever been distracted by you during a serious conversation.
83. Never have I ever thought about you in the shower.
84. Never have I ever kissed you just to win an argument.
85. Never have I ever wanted to kiss you in a totally inappropriate place.
86. Never have I ever imagined our perfect night in.
87. Never have I ever bought something to wear just for you.
88. Never have I ever been jealous when someone flirted with you.
89. Never have I ever blushed because of something you whispered.
90. Never have I ever planned a romantic surprise in detail.
91. Never have I ever wanted to slow dance with you in the kitchen.
92. Never have I ever saved a photo of you that nobody else has seen.
93. Never have I ever fallen for you all over again.
94. Never have I ever wanted to cancel plans just to kiss you.
95. Never have I ever been turned on by your voice on the phone.
96. Never have I ever thought about you while you were in the same room.
97. Never have I ever wanted to try something new together.
98. Never have I ever planned how to seduce you.
99. Never have I ever kissed you in public just to show off.
100. Never have I ever wanted this game to end so we could do something else.

Ideas to make it more fun

• Bet on it. Before each statement, guess whether your partner has done it. A right guess is a point.
• Add a follow-up. For every "I have", the other person asks "When?" or "With whom?".
• Switch to Truth or Dare. When you run out of statements, keep going with Truth or Dare for couples.

More statements for groups: 200 Never Have I Ever questions.

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